Audio Smut - January Edition

Today on Audio Smut we will be discussing sex themed stories of 2007(HPV vaccine, the Robert Pickton trial and the age of consent laws), new year’s resolutions as submitted by listeners of the show, and predictions and hopes written especially for us by influential sex writers in our acquaintance – including Heather Corinna, Laura Roberts, Andrea Zanin and Jon Pressick.

Audio Smut is a radio show based in Montreal that looks at sex from all angles: educational, political, cultural and kinky. Tune in the first Wednesday of every month from 6-7pm on CKUT 90,3 FM. Audio Smut is one of four shows that air during the Hersay hour. To listen on-line and download past shows visit ckut.ca.

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Marriage is No Guarantee

This week I have had a couple of conversations about how getting married does not offer you any assurance to life long happiness and that it does not guarantee fidelity, safety, security, trust, connection or love. Sure, there can be legal and financial benefits to being married, but that can be said of most business contracts. Marriage though has other expectations imposed onto it. To be honest, I bought into this fairytale. Getting married, at first, gave me a sense of social standing that I wanted to experience. My psyche was filled with romantic notions and I am sure that gave me a sense of hope that a marriage would be a happily ever after for me. I am happy, but it is not due to a ceremony, a document or a promise.

I have been married 8 years and if I had to do it again I likely would not. I did not have an expensive or extravagant wedding, but I think I would have rather invested the cost of the wedding into my retirement fund or into a down payment for a home. Yes, the day was lovely and both James and I appreciated the sense of specialness we felt by having our friends and family honour us, but we do not think it made our relationship any more satisfactory, our life views and goals any more compatible, or our appreciation for each other as individuals any stronger.

It seems I am not the only one who this week has thought about the institution of marriage and the myth that it offers us protection from a host of negatives or guarantees us with a better life. Heather Corinna wrote an excellent journal entry about how, for women especially, it is not the fix all, save all that so many folks think or want it to be. A must read.

A snippet...

Historically and currently, marriage, in and of itself, does not and never has offered protection from sexually transmitted infections, especially when you consider not only what the rates of infidelity are — particularly among men, who more often transmit disease to their spouses, simply when we’re talking about the physiology of sexually transmitted infections — and as well, when you consider that most people will have had other sexual partners before marriage, and how many people (again, especially men) never get STI screenings, and also don’t use latex barriers consistently, or at all. I’ve talked before — and you hardly need me to deliver this news flash — about how anyone with ears and eyes knows that marriage does not guarantee a safe or satisfying sex life. I’ve talked before about how given domestic violence rates, the notion that women are guaranteed lifelong safety, on every level, simply by getting married is an incredibly cruel piece of propaganda.

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Purr*vert

Cirque du Boudoir presents Purr*vert

January 26th, 2008
Academy (4445 St-Laurent Blvd.)
10pm

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Who's Your Dada?

Tonight I went to see The Scandelles’ multidisciplinary conceptual cabaret Who’s Your Dada?. Sounds a lot more pretentious than it is. In fact, it is a whole lot sillier, sexier and interesting than it is pretentious. In it Sasha Van Bon Bon takes you on an anti-art journey that examines current themes, fads and societal concerns. I responded strongly to the piece about motherhood and protectionism of children as well as the spoof of striptease fitness athletes (which got very moving for me as a sex worker when it went into a dark and troubling direction afterwards).

Who’s Your Dada?
Buddies in Bad Times Theatre (12 Alexander St., Toronto)
January 23rd – February 9th
Tickets $15-$25

For more information click here.

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Teeth (the movie)

I am not sure if my tastes match those of the reviewer’s (it is one way I figure out how I am going to spend my movie going dollars – the other is Rotten Tomatoes), but her review of this movie (clear, concise and mentions Donnie Darko) makes this a must see for me.

In an entertaining albeit graphic way, “Teeth” examines the tug of war between female self-empowerment and oppression through sex, and society’s fear and judgment of female sexuality.

Official Website

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Audio Smut - February Edition

Today on Audio Smut we will the organizers of V Day Montreal's Vagina Monologues to talk about their production as well as the organizations their are rasing funds for.

Audio Smut is a radio show based in Montreal that looks at sex from all angles: educational, political, cultural and kinky. Tune in the first Wednesday of every month from 6-7pm on CKUT 90,3 FM. Audio Smut is one of four shows that air during the Hersay hour. To listen on-line and download past shows visit ckut.ca.

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Moulin Rouge 3

Monde Osé presents Moulin Rouge 3 - a night of pleasure and a show to make you blush.

February 16th, 2008
Theatre Corona (2490 Notre Dame)

Please keep in mind that there is a dress code for these events. Check out their website for details and pricing.

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Audio Smut - March Edition

Today on Audio Smut our guest will be Elizabeth Wood from Sex In The Public Square. We will be talking about this commmunity based website porject as well as the recent online public forum that was held about Sex Work, Trafficking and Human Rights.

Audio Smut is a radio show based in Montreal that looks at sex from all angles: educational, political, cultural and kinky. Tune in the first Wednesday of every month from 6-7pm on CKUT 90,3 FM. Audio Smut is one of four shows that air during the Hersay hour. To listen on-line and download past shows visit ckut.ca.

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Back Off!

The Women's Studies Student Association of Concordia and the Centre des Femmes de l'UQAM are proud to invite you to a day of action and discussion regarding individual and collective re-appropriation of women's health and sexuality.

There will be many activities questioning certain oppressive market-oriented scientific discourses, workshops about different contraceptive methods, menstrual alternatives, abortion legislation, hypersexualization, sex toys, BDSM and more.

There will be a community fair from 5-7pm where you can meet groups such as:P OWER Camp, Scientifines, féminÉtudes, the group MAMAN, l'Oeil dans le front and les sorcières.

The day will culminate with an *interuniversity panel* from 7 PM to 9 PM, with participating researchers from all four Montreal universities. 'Diverse Subjectivities in Health; Santé des femmes: point de rupture' will address how the health care system homogenizes women rather than addressing their specific needs. Participating in this panel: Maria Nengeh Mensah from UQAM, Viviane Namaste from Concordia, Bilkis Vissandjée from l'Université de Montréal and Abby Lippmann from McGill.

Registration is free. Visit their website for details.

Friday March 14th, 2008, 12 PM-9 PM
CEDA, 2515 Delisle (métro Lionel-Groulx)
2520 Lionel-Groulx for wheelchair access

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Pretty in Kink

Cirque du Boudoir presents Pretty in Kink

March 29th, 2008
Le Social (1445 Bishop)
10pm

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Wonderland

Monde Osé presents Wonderland, an evening to escape with Alice and her friends.

April 18th, 2008
Yoko Lounge (4747 Jean Talon)
Tickets $25 (presale) & $35 (at door)

Please keep in mind that there is a dress code for these events. Check out their website for details.

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Invasion

Cirque du Boudoir presents Invasion.

May 18th, 2008
Cherry (417 St-Pierre)
10pm

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Body Art

Monde Osé presents Body Art, a celebration of this artistic form of sensuality. If you don’t have any permanent body art to show off, you can hire a body painter or henna artist before the event.

June 13th, 2008
Cherry (417 St-Pierre)
Tickets $20 (presale) & $30 (at door)
10pm

Please keep in mind that there is a dress code for these events. Check out their website for details.

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Robots, Dolls & Monsters

Cirque du Boudoir presents Robots Dolls & Monsters.

July 26th, 2008
Just For Laughs Studio
10pm

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Bal Erotique

Le Bal Erotique is a large-scale event designed to celebrate sexuality and freedom of expression through live shows, music, dancing, costumes, video and performance art. It is both a derivation and amalgamation of a masquerade, lingerie party, fetish ball, or burleque event.

August 14th - 17h - Provocation: Eroticism and Sensualty Art Exhibit Present by Conseils des Arts du Quebec (Musée Just Pour Rire)
August 15th - 21h - Bal Erotique III presents Illuminati (Club Opera)
August 6th - 14h - Rehab Pool Party (Terrase Magnetic)

Please keep in mind that there is a dress code for these events. Check out their website for details as well as pricing.

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Between You and Me

Recently, I was interviewed by Josey Vogels about my experiences as a porn performer who creates and runs her own personal porn website. This interview was for the show on pornography which was episode 8 of the summer series called Between You and Me. The series itself covers a variety of topics within the world of human sexuality. I have been listening through out the summer and it has been extremely informative and interesting.

Take a listen to Why Porn?

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Peep Show

Cirque du Boudoir presents Peep Show - a kinky celebration for their 2nd anniversary. it will feature go-go dancers, burlesque performances, hot DJs spinning all night long and of course a Peep Show.

September 27th, 2008
Le Social (1445 Bishop)
Tickets $15-$30
10pm

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Hollywood

Monde Osé presents HOLLYWOOD where they are celebrating the glitz and glam.

October 24th, 2008
Cabaret Lion D'or (1676 Ontario E.)
Tickets $25 (presale) & $35 (at door)
10pm

Please keep in mind that there is a dress code for these events. Check out their website for details.

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