All About Dildos (part 3)

[July 27th, 2007]

If you are interested in adding dildos to your sexual repertoire, there are a few things to keep in mind.

1- No two vaginas are alike and no one vagina is alike all the time. At different times in a woman’s life, her menstrual cycle, and in different positions, her vagina will be able to accommodate different sized and shaped objects. You need to select a dildo accordingly.

2- You need to relax to use dildos – especially in your ass. Doing Kegel exercises can help, as can breathing exercises. Take things slow and don’t force anything in that you cannot comfortably accommodate.

3- Use lube. Choose an appropriate lube for the material of the dildo. Water based lubes tend to be best since silicone lubes can be detrimental to the integrity of silicone dildos.

4- Clean those dildos and/or use condoms on them to avoid bacterial or viral infections. Wash them after each use with a mild soap and let them dry before putting them away (I keep mine in a Tupperware container).

5- Do not share your dildo unless you have changed the condom. The same goes for moving from your anus to your vagina. Personally, I just keep those dildos separate. I have some dildos for my vagina and others for my butt.

6- Do not use a dildo in your butt unless it has a flared based.

7- Be reasonable with your sex play. Use dildos rather than household items. Dildos are meant for sexual penetration. Other things can cause internal damage or get lodged. I do not think most of us want to end up on one of those websites that feature photos from freaky hospitable visits!

Want to learn more? I suggest this book by the amazing Violet Blue - The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Sex Toys

Previous Articles

All About Dildos (part 2)
[July 20th, 2007]

All About Dildos (part 1)
[July 13th, 2007]

Talk Dirty To Me
[May 28th, 2007]

Vulvas, Vaginas and Various Other Womanly Things (part 3)
[May 24th, 2007]

Vulvas, Vaginas and Various Other Womanly Things (part 2)
[May 23rd, 2007]

Vulvas, Vaginas and Various Other Womanly Things (part 1)
[March 7th, 2007]

Locker Room Sex Talk (part 2)
[January 17th, 2007]

Locker Room Sex Talk (part 1)
[Novermber 13th, 2006]

Science of Sex - Sense of Smell
[September 20th, 2006]

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